PODCAST: Episode 22 – Sex is a Gift!


This week, Nadine talks with Dr. Nicole M. Haig about the physiological and emotional benefits of sex, common questions about sex and sexuality, and the fact that sex is a gift that is given to both women and men!



Nicole M. Haig MD

Nicole Haig was born in Brooklyn, New York, the daughter of Jamaican immigrants. She attended Dartmouth College for her undergraduate education, then the State University of New York Health Science Center at Brooklyn for medical school. Dr. Haig attended Emory University for her residency training. She is board certified in Emergency Medicine and has practiced in Georgia, Florida, Alabama, Virginia, St. Croix, and Jamaica over the past sixteen years. Dr. Haig been an Emergency Department Medical Director at two different facilities in Georgia. She is currently working on her MBA at the Emory Goizueta School of Business.

Dr. Haig works as a faculty advisor with college students and travels with them to countries including China, Australia and the United States to learn about medicine and science. She volunteers her services with medical missions to Jamaica each summer. Dr. Haig also volunteers countless hours doing free physicals and other community service for students including those who participate in the Special Olympics. Dr. Haig was a CDC medical officer at the Atlanta-Hartsfield International Airport Quarantine station. She worked to screen patients with potential Ebola exposure.

Dr. Haig regularly lectures other medical personnel, including nurses and EMS about varying relevant medical topics. She does public speaking on Women’s Health, Understanding Women’s Sexuality and Sensuality as well as Balancing Career and Family. In recent years, Dr. Haig has moved into media, including working on Untold Stories of the ER, on Discovery Health & TLC over the past seven seasons. She was also the medical consultant for Complications, a drama series on the USA network.

Dr. Haig is passionate about teaching “the masses” to take better care of themselves physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially. She believes that in order for people to achieve that, they must be able to access and utilize the resources afforded to them. Dr. Haig’s goal is to empower people with the information and means to make those positive changes in their lives. Dr. Haig’s greatest legacy is her four children who keep her grounded and focused everyday!


PODCAST: Episode 19 – Who You Want to Be

Sonia M. Benson
Consultant #5506


This week, Nadine chats once again with Bedroom Kandi Boutique Consultant Sonia M. Benson about becoming who you want to be versus who you are supposed to be in the minds of others, and how important authentic self-expression and identity are in the context of pleasure and sexuality. They also discuss the topic of discovering your “why” and sources of compelling vision.

Want to get in touch with Sonia? Email her at soniambenson@gmail.com

PODCAST: Episode 17 – The Joys of Self Pleasure

In this week’s episode, Nadine meets with Sexologist, Author, and Speaker, Dr. TaMara Griffin to talk about — you guessed it! — Masturbation, and how self pleasure begins with self love.

Dr. TaMara, a certified clinical sexologist, sex therapist, relationship expert, author, and speaker has more than 20 years experience speaking, writing and teaching about human sexuality across the country. She also has extensive experience working within the faith-based communities providing human sexuality education and HIV education. Dr. TaMara is also a repeat guest lecturer for the University of Michigan Flint, Let’s Talk About Sex UNV 100 Freshman course. Dr. TaMara also served as a sexuality consultant for the Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

Dr. TaMara has a Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) in Human Sexuality, Doctorate of Human Sexuality (DHS), Master of Social Work degree (University of Michigan), Master of Science degree in Education with a specialization in the Art of Teaching (Johns Hopkins University), and a Bachelor of Arts degree in Family Life Education (Spring Arbor University). Dr. TaMara is certified in Clinical Sexology. She is also a holds several certificates including: Sex Therapy, Clinical Sexology, and Erotology; just to name a few. Dr. TaMara is a “Thought Leader and Expert for The Association of Black Sexologist and Clinicians. She is also an active member of the American College of Sexologist International.

Check out Dr. TaMara’s book, I Am sex, available in the Bedroom Kandi store!

PODCAST: Episode 16 – A Party For One Is Still A Party!

Shika Langford Consultant #251

Shika is a self-described REAL housewife, serial entrepreneur, and a stay at home mom who happens to homeschool. She decided to become a BKBC to provide real women & men with a real experience to kick off their shoes, relax their feet, and let their hair down. It also provides her with the opportunity to learn from others while equipping them with valuable information that they can take into their  boudoirs to explore, discover, & play!

Shika insists that she doesn’t sell sex toys; she says she shows customers how to cope with life through an intimate & innovative lifestyle. That’s why she created the #31DaysMasturbationChallenge, she says  – because it’s a perfect fit for all of your therapeutic needs. She goes live daily at 2:22 EST for the Month of May on all of her social media accounts to talk to you about what’s new. She also does intimate 1 on 1 or group sessions to show you how to partake in your own research & development.

When Shika isn’t doing parties, she’s updating our BK Instagram & Twitter with things that make you think or laugh, or interviewing business owners & travelers for her xoLoveShika.com blog.

Follow her on all social media @xoLoveShika or email her at xo@xoLoveShika.com

PODCAST: Episode 15 – Sex Inspires My Best Poetry

Keyana Williams
aka Lady K

This week Nadine talks with Keyana Williams, also known as Lady K, the author of Sex Inspires My Best Poetry. Listen to their discussion of poetry and intimacy, and enjoy a reading from the author of her work!

The Cleveland-based author of Sex Inspires My Best Poetry: The Urban, Erotic Poetry of Lady K, Keyana Williams still does not consider herself a poet. She calls her writing “empowered poetic erotica”, with a mission to empower women to embrace their sensuality and sexuality.

Sex Inspires My Best Poetry is a steamy collection of beautifully sensual and erotic poetry on subjects related to, or inspired by, sex. The poetic verse in the book ranges from seductive to humorous, with a mostly hip-hop and urban edge. The book’s pages are peppered with sexual and sensual Hip-Hop, R&B song quotes. The book also supported by a hip-hop/poetic Urban, Erotic Soundtrack.

Besides being inspired by her own experiences, Williams says she was inspired by the experiences of friends, of relatives, and just life experiences in general, “I was inspired by thinking about some of the general things that people go through and some of the common feelings that people feel, as they relate to sex.”

Williams says that Lady K is a completely different persona. Self-described as typically shy and reserved, Williams says Lady K is a bit bolder and brasher. She describes her poetic writing style has young, hip, and sexy. In addition to vivid imagery, her poetry is rich with metaphor. Williams says that through this process she has learned to embrace her sexuality and gain confidence in herself. Her hope is that this book will inspire others to do the same.

PODCAST: Episode 14 – There Are No Overachievers


Brian Biro

In this week’s episode, Nadine speaks with renown speaker Brian Biro, America’s Breakthrough Coach, on seizing opportunities, making every moment count, and living to one’s potential.

Brian has delivered over 1,600 presentations around the world over the last 25 years. The author of 11 books including his brand new There Are No Overachievers, Brian was rated #1 from over 40 Speakers at 4 consecutive INC. Magazine International Conferences. With degrees from Stanford University and UCLA, Brian has appeared on Good Morning America, CNN and as a featured speaker at the Disney Institute in Orlando. Brian was recently named one of the top 100 most inspirational graduates in the history of the UCLA Graduate School of Business. He was also honored as one of the top 65 Motivational Speakers in the world!

In his book There Are No Overachievers, Brian distills a lifetime of lessons on how to be more energized and passionate about work and life by seizing the WOO. A WOO is a Window of Opportunity–a precious, unrepeatable moment that can impact, redirect, and even reshape our lives, once we recognize and choose to seize them. By enhancing our ability to relate to others, increasing our personal energy, fostering greater teamwork, and better partnering with those around us, he shows us how we can create windows of opportunity each and every day that can change our careers and our lives.


PODCAST: Episode 13 – On Leadership

Dora Chambers returns to the podcast to talk about leadership, significance, and where the business of pleasure intersects with the business of people. 

Dora is a Success Coach, International Speaker & Trainer, Radio Talk Show Host and Philanthropist, and has over 25 years of combined experience in business and leadership development, relationship marketing & sales training, and quality assurance. She is the Founder & President of DDC Success Coach, Founder of Pink LadyBug Foundation; breast health awareness non-profit organization; and Radio Talk Show Host of “Speak Life with Dora“.

Click to Learn More About Dora Chambers!